Teens and older men dating

Deborah had secretly read her mother’s copy of ; she knew—or thought she knew—what an erect penis meant.As she put it to my friend, she “delighted in knowing he was turned on,” and began to move around on his lap.Now that I’m single in my 30’s, I really only want to date guys very close to my age.

One day, she felt his erection driving against her.Deborah (not her real name, of course) wanted to make it clear that, as she put it, “grade-school girls can have sexual agendas too.”Deborah, now a mother of teens herself, told my friend that when she was 11, she’d started taking private piano lessons.Her teacher was a married man in his 30s, and he gave these lessons out of his home while his wife was away.I’d always felt pretty mature for my age (as so many women do), and especially in comparison to the guys around me.I stayed married to my husband for seven years, and by the time our relationship ended, I saw our age difference in a completely different way.Certainly a 50-year-old man dating a 22-year-old woman is better than a 58-year-old-man marrying an 8-year-old girl, but how much better exactly?According to Hugo Schwyzer, this age dynamic is sexist and hurts men and women alike.It’s about the mistaken assumption that younger women will be more malleable.” In fact, young women in their early and mid-20s are quite malleable, something a woman that age might deny, but ask that same woman in her 30s to look back at her younger self and it’s likely she’d concede the point.So why are young women so willing to date older men?Interestingly, the same survey showed that “One in three people think a bit of immaturity helps in bonding well with children,” and I concur.Rather than allow that to make a case for older men being great fathers to infants, that should make the case for young women of childbearing age to mate with young men their own age. Young men are encouraged to be a bit more mature, but remain goofy enough to be playful dads, and young women will hopefully be able to retain a life-long partner instead of an aging and eternal player willing to discard her as soon as she turns 40, or one she wants to ditch as soon as she’s old enough to realize what she’s gotten herself into.

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