You must also commit yourself to follow God's standards for marriage.” God’s will is that Christians marry Christians.The first priority is that he or she is a Christian.This person is the “right one” according to the will of God. The right question, which the Scriptures teach is this one, “Is he or she the right kind of person to marry?Finding the “right one” is the key to finding God’s will and marital happiness over a lifetime. " Prov. says, “He who finds a wife finds what is good, and receives favor from the Lord." In other words, it is good for a man to find a woman and get married. It is good for a woman to find a man and be married as well.Finding the right kind of wife or husband is God’s will for you. The Scriptures do not teach that believers need to find a specific person the Lord has chosen, but rather the Bible says that we are to focus on choosing the right kind of person and avoiding the wrong kind of person.
Prov.3:5-6 says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding.
They were very significant in terms of the covenant God made with Abraham and were major figures in the line of messiah. The normal Biblical approach in these non-moral areas (See the CD “How Do I Know God’s Will for My Life?
“) is to choose whomever you desire to marry as long as you choose the right kind of person according to God's priorities.
They should not have intimate fellowship with those that have not been declared righteous and are still in spiritual darkness.
This does not mean that Christians can’t have non-Christians as friends, but friendship is not a bond for life as marriage is.