“The blame game antics are lame cover-ups,” says Klungness.
“His choice to abandon his kids — emotionally or financially — should be an instant deal breaker.” You don’t want his baggage in your life. Party Animal Yep, single moms have every right to let their hair down and have a good time.
When I was pregnant, the last place I expected to find myself was on Tinder.
“If making the effort to get together with you on your turf doesn't interest him, then he’s just not that into you and is likely seeing other women,” warns Klungness. Insta-Dad Your one-date-wonder wants to meet your kid already? Find someone who has a bigger attention span than your toddler does. Your Neighbor He’s hot, single, nice to your kid and gave you an emergency cup of milk once.
The other reason is that his problem _will _get in the way of his relationship with you.
You can’t fix him, so, wish him well and run away, mama. Over-the-Top Mama’s Boy If he drops everything to change a light bulb at his mom’s house and takes her calls when you’re in bed together (), there may be a good reason.
Honestly, I still wanted to be desired by the opposite sex and have that feeling of wondering what a date might lead to—a hookup, a holiday romance, a love affair—rather than letting my pregnancy turn me into someone who was OK with feeling overlooked.
Plus, my posse of girlfriends was neatly divided between those who were shacked up with long-term partners and those who were still hitting the playing field hard.