I need someone who will challenge me and make me go to the edge and take chances sometimes. I phrased this way because it's going to become really important later see below I am trying to train for a 5K - my 'record' is only running 1.5 miles straight but I can hike 10 miles without missing a beat. At least in my area, that's code for a serious party girl looking for NSA sex. It does seem if it's not a selfie, the only time my photo was taken was on Halloween!
I'm guessing that many/most people on dating sites put a fair amount of effort into their photo selections. How about pics of you in shorts and a short sleeved shirt.
I enjoy big family gatherings or large groups of laughing friends or intimate evenings alone getting close.
I love to entertain and I like to try new places in town - in fact it was my New Year's Resolution to try 2 new places a month last year - and I did.
I want someone who is financially secure (but that sounds like a gold digger when all I want is to not be a sugar momma and have them contribute financially and not be in a heapload of debt without the means to pay it).
I want someone who has a sense of adventure and curious about the world (hence the things I'd like to do and 'invite' them to join - grew up around too many people who never left the county).