And if you've ever dated one, you know that there are many perks, but also lots of drawbacks, the most well-known of which is being a so-called He has less baggage than an older guy who has been with more women, and has done more things.
A lot of times when you are dating, you are dating the guy and all of his baggage, i.e.
You might have different reference points on things if you grew up at different times, like watching different TV shows, using different expressions, etc. Even though you relate to him, you might not relate to his friends because they might seem too immature for you.
This is great if you wind up marrying him and sometimes disappointing if you mold him into an amazing guy and some other girl winds up with him! It's a fact, when you hang out with younger people, your younger side comes out.“I am dating someone who is close to 20 years older than me and one major perk, if I'm being honest, is that he has money.It’s not new money (or young money) where he wants to go out and blow it on stupid things; it’s the earned life he’s been creating for years. There’s very little fighting or problems that pop up. ), think about the comfort you'll derive from being with a person who can teach you how to live in the moment and really appreciate the way that sip of wine tastes instead of thinking about calories and the gym time you'll have to put in tomorrow.Younger folks, in general, are more apt to still believe that people can change and goals can be attained. At first, you'll look at him like he's crazy and pull your Snuggie over your head.But then you'll get flashbacks of a time, not so long ago, when you didn't leave your house before 11.Since he is probably still figuring himself out, you have the opportunity to mold him into what you want him to be.Guys tend to mature more slowly than women and at an older age.You'll play video games together, attend concerts held in grimy venues and eat nacho chips out of a bag while listening to music you've never heard before. Life experience transforms people from blank slates into canvases rich with color, shadows and highlights. With a younger partner, you're less likely to inherit the past pain of several failed relationships or the complications that come with being in love with someone who has children and a not-so-nice ex-wife.There's a fairly good chance, depending on how many years apart you are in age, that you will be the breadwinner in your relationship, at least until he catches up. Raised a child on your own or closed on your house before you were 28.