Like I said above, women know almost immediately whether or not romance is a possibility with a guy. Eventually they will find someone who’s serious about moving forward.You will either get ignored or become the friendly guy who gives her free attention. Of course, if she offers her number without you asking… Asking for hers puts her in the position of having to say “yes” or “no” and she might not want to hurt your feelings. A lot of you come to me saying, “I don’t have any potential women in my life.” When I ask about your methods, I often learn that you HAVE opportunities, you just don’t capitalize on them! Or, you’re just plain oblivious to the “green lights” you’re getting from women.So when a woman looks at you and smiles, she’s not just being polite. I’ll introduce myself to her.” Many guys don’t realize how easy it can be to get a girl’s number.She’s usually giving you an approach invitation — her subtle way of saying, “Come talk to me.” These are your safest opportunities to meet someone with the highest chance of success. They believe you need to have an amazing, one-of-a-kind, hour-long conversation. I was pregnant (on purpose) with our oldest son three months after that. Outcome: Success.–These are just a few illustrations of the ways things can go right and go wrong when you’re asking out a woman. But isn’t that better than getting her number by pressuring her, and then wondering if she’s wishing you’d never called her?
It makes sense in theory — you’re strangers and you want to make her feel comfortable. You want to show her how similar you are and how you both love the same things.
When you’re out at a bar, club, or event, notice how many women are looking around.
If they’re out and single, women scan the room for potential guys. New rule: “I will assume that any woman who makes eye contact and smiles at me is open to conversation.
These are women who were invested enough to willingly give you their number.
Every time you don’t follow up on a number, you’re throwing away your best shots for romance.