If you’re interested in somebody and you like them, just talk to them. If it’s confusing to you, learn about it, and learn from them.” Other than that?“She knows how to field dress a deer and change her oil on her car.To Ryan, paying bills on time and having food on the table meant stability.But whenever a job was making Libby unhappy, her parents would tell her to quit because she didn’t need it anyway.
“She was asking me what I had planned so we could arrange for a date, and she asked if I had to work a job.” At that point, Ryan had two jobs—a full-time one where he worked 40 hours during the week, and a part-time job during weekends.It was what I imagine going to a foreign country would feel like, except that foreign country is their five bed/two bath cabin with a pool and hot tub, custom design, acres of land…It was just weird to me.” Two years ago, Sarah and Phil were married at the Science Museum in St. While they both wanted a really small wedding of just close friends and family, Phil’s family pushed the couple to have a bigger event and offered to pay for it. I felt guilty accepting the help, but it was just pocket change to them,” she says.“We both view money as just numbers— she sees money as something not to worry about because it’ll always be there, I see it as something not to worry about because it’s already gone.As long as you have enough to cover your needs, it doesn’t matter how much money there is.” Sarah, Reddit user Panda Prophetess, 25, is a web developer and social media manager in Colorado. They met working at a toy store called Air Traffic in Minnesota.He got into fights because that was the only way he was taught to resolve conflict.Early in their relationship, they also argued about Libby’s work ethic.He was putting himself through college and paid for everything himself.Libby’s parents helped her so she didn’t have to work while in college. Ryan’s childhood wasn’t just vastly different from Libby’s economically, but emotionally, mentally and culturally as well. My father and stepmother—both hardcore bikers—were given custody of me.“Eventually, I got it through my thick skull that we were meant to be together,” she says.Sarah—who describes her childhood as “food stamps poor,” says growing up, every Sunday, her grandma would haul her off to church.