I agree that it is difficult to juggle more then one person, I will only date one person at a time.I have a level of respect for a man that will only date one woman at a time.........it isn't right even after a few dates then be upfront and move on,nobody is left hanging and mature adults should be ok with that.DATING implies we met and are now seeing each other exclusively. Ultimately I broke up with one man, and concentrated on my relationship with the other. Focusing on one man reduced the pressure in my life. WHICH means we have had the exclusive conversation. Or how about at the meet and greet can we pull our phones out and delete our profiles??? Why do men want me to cut off all contact with all other men after a simple HI email. Even though it is my choice to only go one at a time, I would never ask a woman to only date me until I knew I was ready to be exclusive with her.WHICH means we have had the exclusive conversation. Or how about at the meet and greet can we pull our phones out and delete our profiles??? Why do men want me to cut off all contact with all other men after a simple HI email. No, it's not old-fashioned to date only one person at a time. At age 26, I dated two men at the same time and told them about each other. WHAT do I do after the first email take my profile down??? AND if you arent THE ONE then I put it back on a week later and put a cute little title about how I am back AGAIN? Personally, it is kind of a turn on with her dating other men and wanting me more and more as the weeks go by to where she only wants me.However; if I am sleeping with someone, it sorta changes.
:)I prefer to keep my options open when it comes to chatting, meeting & such.
Thanks:)I've done both and in recent years stuck to dating one person at a time,,, for many reasons. I generally find that the more mature ( as in mannerisms and actions- not in age) adults date one person at a time. First of all, I don't have to, there are so many options available.
People divorced less than 2-3 years generally play the field and that often involves dating multiple people at the same time. And second, I do not want to depend on one person early on to be that all consuming. What if I don't like her that much, or enough to become a long term.
LOLWell us old farts can only date one at a time,cause really, there are mornings we can't even remember our names or what day it is. I think the main thing is to do things the way that sit right with you but to recognize that everyone has the right to determine what's right for them.
EDIT for Walts - Got to love the long weekends for messing up your internal clock.