The point is, stop trying to prove to me that you’re “down” with whatever.
It won’t make me think you’re cooler; it will only make me think that you’re trying too hard.
When I first got braids a couple of months ago, I was riddled with compliments.
It was a huge change from the curly auburn afro I’ve been rocking for the past few years, so it was easy enough to see why people were excited about the change. Getting weird looks from old white people walking down the street.
More white men and fewer black women=more chances of BEING WITH a white man who dreams of being with YOU, a nice black woman. Lots of white men with land who would LOVE to love a nice black woman. Lots of white men with money who would LOVE to love a nice black woman. White men LOVE to be approached in a complimentary fashion.
Last time we checked, a black woman was still a woman. In that case, resist the urge to think your way is automatically 'right' and theirs is 'different' (read: 'wrong'). You're on a date, remember, with another human being, remember.
We're guessing the men who ask this probably don't have much of a clue with any race. Relax."I could be completely loony and totally off base with this," she says.
If the white man in front of you does not love you, then he is out of synch with you, you are out of synch with him, or how you judge how you are synching is wrong. Unrequited love IS empty and one-sided, which is NOT real love at ALL.
Real love is ALWAYS filled with the promise of happiness, and unrequited love is NOT by its very definition.