Now lets all breath a sigh of relief that those Houdinis did us the courtesy of finding something better! He may start to withdraw, to lose interest, and you just feel that something is off. I have a bf and we ere together like 2 years more we are LDR.
He never once showed me any of his past warmth such as reaching to touch me etc, while I was there.
I know it’s hard to accept, especially if you really liked this guy, but you really do need to just trust that it’s for the best.
Why would you want to be with a guy who doesn’t want to be with you anyway? You want to be with a guy who can’t believe his luck that a girl like you would choose him! He may have left you, don’t let him take your dignity with him.
I’m tired to talking about why he vanishing, many times i talked but he keep vanishing and come back. Bcs if he love me he will make me important, and keep in touch with me no matter how busy he is, no matter how much he travels and no matter how much he has going on in his life. I told him i knew he was never going to contact me again.
I remained calm and neutral and respectful as I wanted to retain my dignity.