Dating older men for an Indonesian girl is not necessarily seen as a bad thing, because older men are deemed more adequate to provide girls with the security they need.
Yet, the age difference may also be a difficulty because it adds to the incomprehension between the two partners.
The guy may also wonder if the girl is "interested", meaning that as soon as the money flow stops, the girl will walk away without any regrets.
- Even for small amounts, do not give the impressions that money isn't important for you.
Age Gap: The age difference, quite common in expats/Indonesian girls’ couples, is less a problem than one could imagine.
Always show that the act of buying something is a rationale decision, not an impulsive one.
Make her understand that you worked hard for the money you earned.
Expats dating Indonesian girls are numerous, and many will find that though certain aspects of their relationships are much easier than with a western girl, there are also some difficulties that men need to take seriously if they want to be successful.
I listed the 4 main hardships expats have to overcome when dating an Indonesian girlfriend: Money: Dealing with the gap in revenues between you and your Indonesian girlfriend is not an easy task.